I was married for nearly 13 years, been divorced for 3. Since my marriage ended I've had the good fortune to spend a lot of quality time with persons who, in my opinion, have incredibly enviable relationships. From them I've learned that I have a tremendous amount to learn about relationships and rather than spend thousands on some therapist who will most likely fill my head full of bullshit that they think I want to hear I figured I'd send a note to the masses just to see what comes back.
I'm not necessarily looking for a sexual relationship, but I am fully aware this is a fundamental component of any solid relationship - if it happens it happens.
Ideally, what I gain from this post is the opportunity to meet and spend time with couples who have what I call fully functional relationships. They are completely open and honest; totally accepting of each other for both their good and bad, and have the opinion that they will spend the rest of their lives with each other. In essence, I'd like to understand how a relationship like this evolves and what sorts of characteristics the persons within a relationship like this exhibit.
This is not a study of any sort and I am not writing a book or anything to that effect. I am merely a person who has a great deal of curiosity and would like to explore further.
5' 9" in Stocking feet.
Dress Size 16
Bra Size 42 C
Loves strappy heels, boots, pantyhose, garterbelts, stockings, short skirts, sexy dresses and tops etc.. I enjoy looking truly, soft, sexy, feminine and genuinly passable and attractive with more of an old style feminine charm.
Very fem, attractive/passable (when dressed) CD / TV seeks LTR with NON-MARRIED, Str8 gentleman or daddy type seeking living together LTR. Are there any guys like this in Portland??? Haven't found you yet. I thought Portland was supposed to be much more liberated and big than it has proven to be so far.
TO BE CLEAR, I am not physically transgendered yet, (TS) -or- on hormones, real breasts, hips (yet), -but- I am very much ready to start, and have known myself to be truly feminine for a long time. This is not a fetish or fantasy for me. I just haven't been able to afford to trans yet or been in the right stable environment long enough to trans. My style is vintage-girlie-pin-up fem., kinda "Bettie Page" if you know who that is. I am very naughty in the bedroom but laid back and classy in public. I am a submissive bottom and not a top. I have plenty of my own sexy, feminine clothing, shoes, accessories etc and truly enjoy turning my sweetie on but can dress casual too when appropriate. I am sweet, smart, kind, honest and loyal and simply seeking a good relationship with the right guy. I like going out very much and love to travel and see new places but also enjoy staying in, being domestic, cuddling, movies etc.. I would be more than happy to return the affection and fun and I am not a women's libber! I like guys and making them happy by being SEXY! but also not a pushover and have a sharp mind as well. I hope to transition further with some understanding, support and help if someone was willing and able to help me get some female things done, hormones etc. to become at TS and more passable, but I do not require this of you.
I have been ready for this for quite some time now, things in storage, easy for me to move and have minimal monthly expenses etc..
You are:
39 - 56 yrs old, very Str8 acting, top, cut, med to large equip, clean, D&D free and at least average to attractive looking. Solid and stable income and home situation and you are looking for live-in wife-girlfriend-lover. Must be a for real, honest, kind, UNMARRIED, loyal, sensitive and intelligent guy, and, not new to this. I am looking for a guy who really understands and knows how to treat a girl like me and make me feel like a woman. I am sincere and for real, so you be too please. Something extra - If you have a leg-foot-shoe fettish thing for womens legs, then you have really found the right girl! : ) lol . . . I have very nice, soft, smooth and sexy feet and legs, loved to have them kissed, played with, sucked, fondled & worshiped, gets me very excited.
Hey guys, this is a serious add so PLEASE, no offense, but no . . . Experimentors, First Timers, Non-Str8's, Hook-ups, Flakes or Users! Please be Top only.
I hope this post doesn't offend or have the tone of being too blunt at all, I just have to be very clear as so many of the people that reply on-line have been extremely flakey, pervs, bone-headed horn dogs or simply didn't read the full post or even worse, didn't understand my post.
If you do understand, I will know. Could that be you?
When I find the woman I'm seeking, I'll find these qualities and what ever else you might surprise me with:
Wit, intelligence, words, and intention, that compliment her sex appeal. Not attached, and has her own place. 26 -36 sounds about right, but feel free to convince me otherwise ;) I'm a thirty-something, and have both my mature and silly moments.
On my better days, I'm:
The smart that's more clever than brainy.. the will that's more bold than stubborn, the charisma that's more charming than innocent.. sometimes a little sneaky.. a body and look that's sexy, not because of the visual and tactile alone - but with the attitude that's refreshingly fun!
With hope that this aim is mutual:
Finding some common ground, in addition to fulfilling some common desires; a get together or longer for a change??. Close-In is ideal, and for someone who is feeling content with meeting someone, with genuine intent for getting together. Seeking someone who could complement my attributes, not challenge them.
Openness not based on need alone, but as much as what I wish to share. Let's cross paths in cyber space, see if we don't find enough reason to cross paths in real time. Please make some reference to my add -- you might as well say something more than that it was overcast out today; you can tease me later, but I'll want to at least know you're more clever than a ro'bot' for starters ;-o [me smirking already!]
We love massage; own two massage tables, and would enjoy trading partners for erotic massage or exploring three of us giving the fourth a massage. We enjoy flirting, making out, cuddling, and sensual touch. We find emotional connection an essential part of sexually experiencing another couple. We are open to taking it one step at a time and seeing what develops next, as we enjoy the adventure together. Once we all feel comfortable and connected we are open to most experiences including full swap in the same room.
TURN ONS: movies, cuddling, hanging out, healthy food, cooking, dining out, concerts in the park, rafting, sharing a room at the coast, bicycling, hiking, erotic/sensual dancing, nude beaches, massage, fantasies, sex, playing in a pile, laying in a pile afterward, Breitenbush, Bagby, Bend, & Seattle.
TURN OFFS: heavy drinking, smoking, spectator sports, country western bars, conservative thinking, & narrow mindedness.
We are sensual, attractive, very height weight proportional, clean, energetic, well-groomed, non- smokers, drug, disease, and drama free and seek same. We are very light drinkers (not drinking is ok too) and very concerned with everyone's emotional and physical comfort, and with STAYING DISEASE FREE.
She is very attractive, 5ft 8 in, 140 pounds, fit, slightly bi-curious, Caucasian, slender build with beautiful long legs, and pert, youthful looking 34 C breasts.
He is handsome, 5 ft 11 in, 180 pounds, Caucasian, fit, including tight abs. and a full head of hair.
Him: 6’2” 42, watery, inscrutable, straight (not narrow), and handsome with a capital HANDSOME.
We are both athletic and take care of ourselves, appreciate the same. Rubenesque is good too!
We are well traveled, educated, adventurous, politically left leaning, and artistic. Not interested in quick hookups but rather developing lasting and increasingly sensual relationship(s) with like minded freaks and dweebs.
Activities we enjoy include sex (duh), snow sports, hiking, music (turn it up!), arts, documentaries, travel, and sex (duh). We are not big drinkers but certainly enjoy other mind alterations. Interested in exploring our (and your!) sensuality.
Okay so here's the skinny: I'm tall, attractive, finishing school at PSU, and I'm very driven w/ my ambitions. No one would ever think I indulge in an alternative lifestyle just by looking at me. Of course I like kink but I'm also interested in romance and a bit of vanilla from time to time. I read a ton, like to ride my bike and travel the world, and I'm typically the perfect gentleman. I'm looking for a hottie that drives me crazy with desire, has a healthy sex drive, and is willing to invest in a kickass relationship for awhile. We could have the appearances of a completely normal dating relationship to our family and friends but in the bedroom we would have some freaking fuck fests.
No requirements I can't meet myself. [ I am very straight, a very fit 5"8", about 160lbs, brn/grn eyes (think 'dancers body)] You, me? Drug and disease free (incl the dreaded herps) SINGLE - and monogamy is your signature, never, ever - a player. Well mannered and intelligent, humorous and occasionally silly or corney, attractive, absolutley NOT overweight - I could care less if you work out at the gym, just be on the slender side. A bit quiet/shy and serious, not someone who constantly needs 'their ticket validated' by everyone they meet. Honest and not seeking hidden agenda or a trickster. I have a home and could possibly provide that stability and comfort you are needing if that's been evasive.
So like me you are looking for that 'little bit more' to balance out the equation of life...
No picture needed as I assume you meet the above mentioned, and are willing to think maybe I do too. Email me back and lets meet somewhere very public during normal daylight working hours after maming sure we'r both real. I've never posted about this before, and please - more than a one sentence answer would be appreciated :) No links or any of that baloney and I don't need a full bio, but your get the idea?
I have been in a 3some before and even lived in a polyamouras relationship but my boyfriend has never had the 3some experience. Everyman should have a 3some!
I am 5'3", curvy with long black hair and blue eyes.
He is 5'11" with brown hair and brown eyes.
I would be hosting this fun little party so no worries there. All you would have to bring is yourself and anything you wanted to party with...
Send Emails with pictures to JuggalDeer at yaho (dot) com
Would love to find another couple to do all the things friends do together, but ramp it up a little bit - movies, happy hour, dinner out, dinner in, dancing, clubs, concerts, the coast etc.
Not interested in full swap at this time; rather, the women enjoying eachother, and the men enjoying that chemistry.
We are getting out this weekend, happy hour and dinner Friday and/or Saturday, so if you want to meet and see if there's something there, please reply.
Her: 43 (look younger), athletic, curly brown hair, pretty, olive skin. Him: 47, fit, silver fox, attractive. I won't post a full face pic on here, but will send one of our faces if you choose to respond to this. We are an attractive, happy couple and a lot of fun.
Interests: hiking, biking, skiing, snowboarding, boating, concerts, movies, dancing, traveling.....living life! (And cuddling in front of the fireplace on rainy days)
What else? Long posts drive me crazy trying to read everything, so I'm keeping it brief. Email me if you have specific questions, but if you like our pic and we like yours, then lets meet for drinks and take it from there.
I am looking for a girl who will take this for what it is, a fun time with a beautiful stranger. I want someone empathetic enough to know I am good person after meeting me, someone who would trust me to take care of them on our trip. Someone with the free time for accelerated friendship and to leave soon after our first nights together here at home, because my tour of duty resumes in about 3 weeks. Someone free-spirited and easygoing enough to have our fourth date be meeting at PDX to hop on an airplane! Not too worried about age/race/bodytype/etc as long as you are a sweet and sexy...
I am fit, over 6 and under 200, with a rugged look and "cute" features. I am educated, sweet, and super easygoing. Confident, alpha-type but still a thoughtful gentleman. I'm a dreamer and lead a very unusual lifestyle. In the bedroom I have a low number but am a skilled lover and very sexual- (big hands and feet, get it?) I think you will be pleased with how I can make you feel ;)
Lets meet for dinner after our emails to see if we click?